I Tried 5 Popular Ways To Lose Weight After 45 - I Wish I'd Skipped Straight To #1

After years of trying just about everything, the last one gave me results I'd never seen before.

I almost didn't post that photo. It was taken right before I tried the last thing on this list.

Keto. WeightWatchers. Fasting. Noom.

I'd lose a bit, get excited… and a few months later end up right back where I started.

Then a woman from my Thursday night pickleball group told me what she'd been doing. So I tried it too.

Here are all 5 things I tried, ranked from worst to the one I wish I'd found first. At the end, I'll show you my 90-day photo.

5. Keto

I lasted 19 days.

It felt like EVERYONE knew someone who'd lost weight on keto. So I tried it.

The first week, the scale moved and I got excited. Then: no toast, no pasta, no mashed potatoes at Sunday dinner. I was standing in the aisle at Kroger reading carb counts on everything.

By day 19 all I could think was: Am I seriously supposed to eat like this forever? No chance.

MY RATING: 3/10

4. WeightWatchers

Better than keto. But I got so sick of counting points.

My mom swore by it: "At least you can still eat normal food." And compared with keto, it was MUCH easier. Nothing was banned.

But every food decision became a math problem. Check the points, check what's left, decide if it's "worth it." Food was on my mind even MORE than before.

Eventually I stopped tracking. You can guess what happened next.

MY RATING: 5/10

3. 16:8 Intermittent Fasting

This sounded ridiculously easy. Until 11am.

Don't eat for 16 hours, eat in an 8-hour window. No counting, no special meals. I thought: "Is that it?"

Then I discovered I REALLY like breakfast. By 10:30am I was hungry. By 11:58am I was standing in the kitchen waiting for noon 😂

It wasn't useless. I just hated spending half my morning waiting to be "allowed" to eat. Breakfast won.

MY RATING: 6/10

2. Noom

This was the closest I'd come to finding something I could actually stick with.

I'd seen Noom advertised about 900 million times before I downloaded it. And it actually taught me a lot about why I eat: boredom, opening the fridge without thinking, wanting something sweet after dinner.

But there was one problem. Knowing why I wanted the chocolate… didn't make me stop wanting the chocolate.

Then, right around this time… something happened at my Thursday night pickleball group.

1. The One I Wish I'd Found Years Ago

This is where things got interesting.

One week I looked at Rhonda from pickleball and thought: She looks different. The next Thursday, I noticed it again.

So I asked: "Rhonda… have you lost weight?" She laughed. "YES!" And when she told me how much, I thought she was exaggerating. She wasn't.

I went home and looked into it. There were women my age, women who'd tried keto, WeightWatchers and every app, all talking about this one completely different approach.

So I took a "before" photo and gave myself 90 days. No checking the mirror every morning. Just one photo at the end.

90 days later I put them side by side, and I actually called Rhonda. I couldn't believe how different I looked.

Early on, I noticed one change that made me think: "Ohhh… NOW I understand why women are talking about this."

I've put both photos, and exactly what I did, on the next page.

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